How Do I Get Back With My Ex...?

I'm going to give you some down to earth answers to your question, how do I get back with my ex...? But first of all, I'm understand that whenever you break up with someone that you really love, you go through stages of powerful emotions... and painful emotions. You may feel sad, depressed and expecially hurt... and you sure do miss your ex.

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Now I can tell you right now, that there are tons of websites, blogs, forums, books and even classes designed to answer that question you have... how do I get back with my ex? But the reality is this... using your common sense DOES make a difference here. And being nice, considerate and showing courtesy goes a long way... just like make up! :)

I suggest that instead of preoccupying your entire day and moping about... why not be pro-active instead of wishing and hoping something will happen? You know, seize the day... or carpe diem for those who prefer latin...

The first thing you must absolutely understand is this... don't play games. Don't try to manipulate your ex. Because they will know... and they will resist you more. In a way... playing games after a breakup gives some people a sort of perverse sense of power... but you won't do that... because you truly miss and want to be back with your ex. Again, don't play games... it is manipulative and mean.

And part of playing games involves the use of lies and tricks... I'll tell you this... do those things and when your ex finds out... even if you used those to get back together... and when your ex finds out... it won't be a good thing and your ex may split with you for good.

And this goes for pretending to "date" others... or pretending to be in love with another person... and yeah I know... it is just a harmless ploy to get your ex jealous... but I'll tell you man, it will blow up and backfire in your face.

Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't but keep this in mind... when you ex finds out that you are moving on so quickly, they may think you don't care about them anyway... and guess what? You will have no idea whether or not your "great idea" worked until it is too late... they found someone else.

Ugh. Not what you planned huh?

Here is another thing... don't be mean. Especially at a fragile time like this... you just broke up and the temptating to be vicious or mean can be hard to resist. My suggestion is that even though you are hurt, you should try to forgive your ex because that will show your ex that you are calm and understanding... which will go a long way to getting your ex back.

Look at it from another point of view... would YOU want to get back together again with yourself? If you are acting manipulative, mean, cranky, or depressed... why? Nobody likes that. Are you being too emotional? Are you comfortable to hang around with? Are you nagging and generally being a pain in the rear end? Then you need to make some changes because it is the one thing that you do have control. Try to be the person that everybody likes to be around. Because I guarantee you this... your ex would then feel more comfortable hanging out with you.

So be on your best behavior... it will make you ex remember why they found your attractive in the first place. Your ex will remember all the good times and miss you. At that point, you have a great chance of getting back together with them.

Like they say, you can draw more flies with honey then with vinegar... you know, sometimes the old folks really know what they are talkin' about huh? :)

Hopefully, I gave you some answers to your question, How do I get back with my ex? The advice that I gave you today are just the initial steps that I followed after breakup up with my girl. You see, I had no clue what to do until I found out about T.W. Jackson's (or T-Dub to his friends) book, The Magic of Making Up.

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