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This Young Gentleman is Wondering If I Can Help?
I get some emails everyday… and I’m absolutely understand the urgency and hopelessness many folks have to get their ex back…
Then I get THIS email… and boy, I just don’t know where to begin…
Now if you have been browsing and reading some of the articles on my website, you should be able to point out the mistakes this young man has made that virtually guarantees his ex girlfriend will never want to see or hear from him again…
So here is what I want you to do, read his email… tell me (nicely of course) what you would tell this man NOT to do in the comment link located at the end of this blog post.
Here is his email with some personal info taken out for privacy:
hey bud….i just visited your site and i was wonderin what u thought about my situation…Um, i dated this girl for about 2yrs and after that everything went totally wrong. I mean EVERYTHING!
After bein broken up for a year now it still killz to this day. she was absolutely everything i EVER wanted and totally tha love of my life! Right now, its wayyyy past textin, letters, 209 court orders, talkin to the parents and everything u can think of ! ….i mean i feel hopeless about EVER getting her back cuz shes very stubborn and uncooperative about even talkin to me AT ALL!
I tried sendin her a birthday card tellin her i miss her, I LOVE HER and i want her back but that didnt work either. Lately, ive been on alot of dates but every girl i seem ta date isnt what i want…i mean, im not tryin to comparing them to her its just i kno what i want and it felt like i had everything with her, IT FELT SO RIGHT!
I was gonna wait till christmas to be engauged but the realtionship only lasted till the second week of october right after our anniversary on tha 5th. That sucked…Its been about a year now and my hearts still set on her even though she hates me and wants nothin to do with me! I mean, i really dont know what ta do anymore but i been tryin to move on. It just doesnt seem ta be workin for me?
Im 25 now but i feel like im gettin old and times runnin out…anyways. let me kno what u think and if u have any advice ide appreciate it! thanx….
– Daniel (not his real name of course)
Topics: Get Ex Girlfriend Back | Tags: Get Ex Back | 2 Comments »
December 29th, 2008 at 2:02 am
I would love to hear what you think about his story… so let’s hear it!
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January 12th, 2009 at 2:18 pm
Daniel it is only natural to want & desire what we can not have.
My Grandfather used to say: ‘Billy it isn’t what you want in life, it’s wanting what you get!’
My Father told me: ‘Billy if you can’t do the job yourself put more men on it!’
I did & she left me.
Seriously if you want the lady back, be her friend. Tell her ‘I am here waiting for you when your ready.
If she has children do something unexpected to let them know you will always be there in their hour of need when & if needed.
Send her Mother or Father, better yet both, a beautiful gift for his or her birthday, valentynes day, annivarsary or Chrismas. Don’t do it once do it forever. Include the children, if feasible. Do the unexpected & she will follow. Never, Never give up praying for her return.
Do the unexpected & please don’t do it for recognition, just do it because you Care.
In the meantime, eat right, exercise & start caring for yourself.
Learn to Love yourself & expect to be rewarded.
Pray & your prayers should be positive.
‘Thankyou God for bringing the Love of my life back to me. Don’t doubt your prayers & also pray for her & her family.
in the mean time, don’t drink or do anything she wouldn’t be proud of.
That’s all, I will also know & realize she is already back in your arms.
Remember God Loves you,
Bill McNeely
Remember: Expect the Miracle.
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